Women Who Love Too Much
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Sweet people often have trouble saying ‘no’ when they are giving so much already, and it’s important to learn how to conserve energy and be direct with people in a pragmatic way. If you allow your ego to build based on what you do for others, it will create an insatiable desire to sacrifice at your own expense. It is in that therapeutic relationship that the unhappy patterns of behavior are repeated and the therapy provides a corrective experience.
This book teaches that love shouldn't be about suffering, no matter what overly-popular television programmes and movies would like to tell us, but should be about a mutual caring and respect, and one that doesn't leave us feeling forced to smother another in our attempts to "help" them, make them better. The more I learned, the more I knew, the more I understood, the more forgiving I had to do, the more I had to let go and accept.The sessions were filled with ongoing discussions of their current boy friend to the degree that it felt to me as though I was invisible. Per non parlare dell'eteronormatività, degli orientamenti sessuali indicati come "devianze", dalla libertà sessuale giudicata sempre in modo negativo. And if such behavior becomes improper, then the issue of whether one can love too much might arise (contrary to the above view).
When I heard that woman, I said, aloud, ‘But you deserve something more than the worst thing you can stand! A chapter focusing on possible neurodiversities making people more prone to develop this syndrome of “loving too much,” and explaining the chemical cocktail in the brain whenever one lives through a “high” phase of obsession in a loveless relationship would have been welcome, fun and if you ask me necessary though.When you focus on all of your partner's "flaws" and think that if they change you will be happy, you are using that as an excuse not to address your own problems.